Second Chances: Rwandan Style!

Second Chances: Rwandan Style!


I wanted to bring light to an incredible country that is being transformed through second chances. In 1994, the assasination of the Rwandan President sparked the Rwandan Genocide, a killing of 1,000,000 Tutsis and moderate Hutus were killed in only 100 days. Since then, government has been revamped, social stability reached, and a heartwarming national forgiveness.

An award winning documentary, "As We Forgive," highlights the current state of Rwanda. Here is the synopsis for this compelling documentary:


Could you forgive a person who murdered your family? This is the question faced by the subjects of As We Forgive, a documentary about Rosaria and Chantal—two Rwandan women coming face-to-face with the men who slaughtered their families during the 1994 genocide. The subjects of As We Forgive speak for a nation still wracked by the grief of a genocide that killed one in eight Rwandans in 1994. Overwhelmed by an enormous backlog of court cases, the government has returned over 50,000 genocide perpetrators back to the very communities they helped to destroy. Without the hope of full justice, Rwanda has turned to a new solution: Reconciliation.


But can it be done? Can survivors truly forgive the killers who destroyed their families? Can the government expect this from its people? And can the church, which failed at moral leadership during the genocide, fit into the process of reconciliation today? In As We Forgive, director Laura Waters Hinson and narrator Mia Farrow explore these topics through the lives of four neighbors once caught in opposite tides of a genocidal bloodbath, and their extraordinary journey from death to life through forgiveness.

For more information: http://www.asweforgivemovie.com/



Now, I am particularly intersted in Rwanda as my boyfriend, Josh Groves, will be moving to Rwanda in March to work with a non-profit organization Bridge 2 Rwanda. He will be working with the Bishop of Rwanda to train pastors in doctrine and theology. This is an incredibly important task because most pastors have a fourth grade reading level or less. He will have contact with hundreds of pastors and consequently effect thousands of Rwandans for the sake of Jesus Christ. Therefore, Rwanda is the most consencrated country in basis of population with a significantly high level of orphans due to the 1994 Rwandan Genocide. He has an incredible opportunity to further the kingdom of God!

Josh has been working to raise enough money to move to Rwanda for two years. He strives to raise $15,000 per year and has raised approximately 1/3 of the money for this year. If you would like more information, please read his blog (http://grovesinthemist.tumblr.com/) or contact him at jgroves@bridge2rwanda.org If you are interested in giving, please give online at
http://www.bridge2rwanda.org/get-involved/borrowed-talent/#josh-groves and make sure the donation is directed towards Josh Groves. We are so excited about the way God is transforming Rwanda through second chances and are delighted that Josh gets to be apart of it all!


Me, Josh Groves, and Elisee (Josh's best friend and college roommate from Rwanda)


Josh and I

Musanze, Rwanda: Josh's home for the next two years (paradise, right?!)

Rwandan child. Image borrowed from B2R volunteer blog (http://www.annanafrica.blogspot.com/)

Merry Christmas!!

Merry Christmas! I wish you a wonderful holiday full of joy, laughter, and family. May we always remember the baby that changed everything as it is the ultimate purpose of the holiday. The birth of Jesus Christ is so precious since it symbolizes the love of God, undeserving grace that he gives us, and the opportunity to form an enternal yet personal relationship with him. What a great season!


This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 1 Peter 4:9-10


Little Sister Darlene!

Darlene is my adopted little sister through the Big Sister, Big Brother organization at Ouachita Baptist University. Because mentoring at-risk kids is the principle behind my platform of Second Chances, this organization is one that I admire and support! Darlene has been so much fun to hang out with and get to know! Sarah comes from a large family, a small apartment, and unemployed parents. She is in the fourth grade in the Arkadelphia School District along with her best friend, Sarah. Sarah's big sister is my roommate and best friend, Whitney. We always hang out together as a group and have lots of fun!

I pick up Darlene every Wednesday afternoon. Sometimes we watch movies, play soccer and foosball, eat dinner in my cafeteria, or go out for ice cream. We have also thrown a birthday party for Darlene and Sarah where we ate cupcakes and ice cream! The girls helped us decorate the dorm room for Christmas and wanted to put christmas ornaments on every item in the room other than the christmas tree! Then when we were walking down the stairs, Darlene accidentally bumped into the emergency exit door and set off the alarm! haha, silly girls.

Darlene is a special girl. She definitely has leadership skills and is always trying to make a plan for the afternoon. She wants to include Sarah and other friends in every activity. She also has the ability to see what needs to be done and knows how to do it. For example, when we were decorating for Christmas, she was directing us to put up christmas lights or place the ornaments on the tree. Darlene has so much potential to be successful in the world, but she definitely needs a positive role model in her life that can encourage and guide her!

Darlene and Sarah being goofy... it's normal!


Sarah's Birthday!

Darlene's birthday present... a jacket just like mine! :)

Darlene's birthday party at Cold Stone Ice Cream, yum!

Decorating our dorm room! They were such a great help!

Darlene with her friend, Danielle. Danielle lives in her apartment complex and is always smiling!!

Darlene and I at the Homecoming Festival on the lawn

The whole gang! We love these kids!

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year!



Within in the past two weeks, I have had the priveledge of riding in two Christmas parades. The first one occured in Arkadelphia, AR. The weather was wonderful and they had a great turn out. I even saw my little sister from the Big Brother, Big Sister Program in the crowd!


Waiting for the parade to start in Arkdelphia!

The second parade was in Osceola, AR. I first met with Tim, Ben, Madison, and Ms. Missy for chili at the annual Chili Cook-Off in Osceola. The chili was delicious and I was able to meet lots of great people from the community. Tim mentioned that the Miss Cotton Belle pageant will be April 2 at the Osceola High School. I am looking forward to meeting once again with my pageant family!


Chili with Madison... yummy!

I noticed this boy was looking at Madison and I throughout dinner.

He finally got enough courage to ask if he could take a picture with us! Too cute!

After supper, we got in line for the Christmas parade. Mddison and I got to ride together as Ms. Missy drove us. We got to the first block, and realized that all children were much more interested in "SpongeBob" who walked behind our car than they were excited to see us. We would see little kids waving and we would wave back. Then the kid would turn to their parent and say, "Do you see SpongeBob?!" Haha, it was quite comical!


I also really enjoyed spending time with Madison! I always forget what an awesome and mature young girl she is, and how much I enjoy being around her. We got to catch up and laugh a little. She is planning on attending the University of Arkansas in the fall where she will play in the marching band and major in architecture. I am so fond of Madison and the example that she sets. She is a beautiful, caring, and intelligent young woman that will definitely make an impact for the better on this world!


In the car, ready for the parade to start!

Time to Celebrate!

Several weeks after Miss Arkansas, Mrs. Micki Konecny called me and wanted to plan a reception in my honor! We booked the First Baptist Activity Center and sent out invitations to all Studio Allegro students. Also, Mr. Bill placed an invitation in the Stuttgart Daily Leader and we had a great turn out!

Mrs. Micki first welcomed every to come in and take a seat. After she spoke for a moment, we watched each of my phases from the Miss Arkansas pageant competition on the overhead screen. In between each phase, I stood up to share stories and thoughts. Afterwards, I signed photographs, took plenty of pictures, and enjoyed cake and punch. Yum!

A special THANK YOU goes to Mrs. Micki and Studio Allegro. I fully appreciate all of the help and guidance that you have given me! You have been a mentor to me while teaching me skills, talents, and life lessons. We are blessed to have someone like you in Stuttgart who has invested in so many girls and shared your talents! Thank you very much... I love you!

Mrs. Micki and me!

Riley, my special princess, gets a little help with putting on her crown!


Speaking to the crowd.

Mrs. Micki is welcoming the crowd.

Mrs. Tracy and Cori Keller

My beautiful cake!


Group of girls that I love! Such sweet girls!

No Livin' La Vida Loca!



Monday night was an eventful night! Josh and I drove to Judsonia, AR where I was given the opportunity to speak to approximately 100 students about choosing abstinence. The event took place at the River of Life church and is a monthly program that educates students on good choices and tough decisions.

As I walked in, the overhead projector showed a picture of me at Miss Arkansas and the title was "No Livin' La Vida Loca!" haha! I loved it! I spoke for around 40 minutes and shared with them an autobiography that included pictures and music. I also had a demonstration on purity where twelve students rinsed their mouth out with water and spit it ito a vase. The students were disgusted with the water and I think I got my point across!

After the program was over, I got to speak one on one with a few girls and guys. I was reminded of the caliber of students we have in the church! I was so impressed with their strength of character and willingness to be open. They truly desire a pure life, and it is so encouraging to hear that message from our youth today! :)

On the way home from the Searcy area, I killed my first deer. I didn't swerve at all, and instead plowed into the backside of the deer with my front right corner of my car. I distinctly remember the deer shattering and guts and blood flying from the animal. We pulled over to see that the deer successfully removed the entire right corner of my car, including the right head light. Paw Paw came to my rescue and sent a tow truck to pick up my car. Whew! What a night!!



This is the screen I saw when I walked in! haha

Some of the students!


Miss Arkansas!

What a great week at Miss Arkansas! I am so thankful for the multiple blessings that came from competing in the Miss Arkansas 2010 pageant! Friday night, I was announced as the top Preliminary talent winner and I was so overwhelmed with joy that the entire moment seems like a fog. On Saturday, I was announced in the top ten and was eventually named 3rd runner up after competing in all phases of competition again. I also was given the Green is Beautiful Award for having a green lifestyle and the Miss Arkansas Association Crowd Favorite Award. I finished the week with a total of $7,550 in scholarship money... enough money to pay for all books and tuition at Ouachita for my senior year!! wow!

I am also thankful for the frienships that I made with other contestants and backstage volunteers. Miss Arkansas can be a long week, but these friendships enriched my week by making it more enjoyable and memorable. I remember being called for the top ten on Saturday night and I heard several vocal cheers from fellow contestants. What a wonderful victory! I am so thankful for these friendships! I enjoyed every moment of competing for Miss Arkansas!
Good luck to Miss Arkansas, Alyse Eady, for an adventurous and memorable year of service! I know that she will do an incredible job and will always be remembered for being a great entertainer!
Evening gown competition with my princess, Riley.
For talent competition, I performed a tap dance to "I got Rhythm"
Presentation of Friday night Preliminary Talent Award
Friday night visitation with Josh after winning the Preliminary Talent Award


Top Five with Miss Arkansas 2010, Alyse Eady